Well girls, here's a question, does a man's financial situation have any affect on his libido? Does it have an affect on your libido? Money's meant to be an aphrodisiac, and so if there's less of it, does that make him/you less horny? Or does it inspire you to achieve greater things without bowing to the God of consumerism? Probably not, if you're anything like me! What would we do without being able to shop, and I'm not just talking clothes, it could be art, fab food, shoes, handbags, linen sheets, cushions, beautiful things that make you happy. So, the real question is - what turns you on and I don't mean sexually, what makes you smile, what makes you feel good? Is it a glorious summer day? Or a night full of stars? Or is it less spiritual than that? Perhaps we're back at the beginning and it's man who is loaded in every respect! Tell us what works for you, we'd love to know. For me, it's a wonderful summer day and lunch at a cafe by the sea with a chilled bottle of Chablis and a seafood platter shared with either a gorgeous (loaded) man, or a great girl friend. Having said that, shopping's pretty good too and comes a close second!